The following story was taken from the CHEK Forum, a forum for CHEK Practitioners. I felt it was such a great story that I had to put it on my website.
Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good
mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask
him how he was doing, he would reply, 'If I were any better, I would
be twins!'
He was a natural motivator.
If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the
employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to
Michael and asked him, 'I don't get it. You can't be a positive person
all of the time. How do you do it?'
Michael replied, 'Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have
two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood... or, you can
choose to be in a bad mood.'
He paused, 'I choose to be in a good mood.'
'Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim... or, I
can choose to learn from it. '
'I choose to learn from it.'
'Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept
their complaining... or, I can point out the positive side of life. '
'I choose the positive side of life.'
'Yeah, right,' I protested. 'it's not that easy.'
'Yes, it is,' Michael said. 'Life is all about choices. When you cut
away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you
react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood.'
'You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's
your choice how you live your life.'
I reflected on what Michael said. Soon thereafter, I left the Tower
Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought
about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that Michael was involved in a serious
accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was
released from the hospital with rods placed in his back.
I saw Michael about six months after the accident.
When I asked him how he was, he replied, 'If I were any better, I'd be
twins! Wanna see my scars?'
I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through
his mind as the accident took place.
'The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my
soon-to-be born daughter,' Michael replied. 'Then, as I lay on the
ground, I remembered that I had two choices:
I could choose to LIVE...
Or... I could choose to DIE.'
'I chose to live.'
'Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?' I asked.
Michael continued, 'The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I
was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw
the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really
scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man'. I knew I needed to
take action.'
'What did you do?' I asked.
'Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me,' said
Michael. 'She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes, I replied.'
The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I
took a deep breath and yelled, 'Gravity'.'
Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live. Operate on
me as if I am alive, not dead!' Michael lived, thanks to the skill of
his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.
I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.
Attitude, after all, is everything.
Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about
itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. After all, today is
the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
